Allan and Drews Story

 Over 30 years ago, I was introduced to Drew through a friend who was already a Citizen Advocate. She knew I could communicate using Auslan, and thought I might be able to support Drew, who has limited verbal communication.

As it turned out, we didn’t need Auslan. Drew has his own powerful ways of expressing himself, and I quickly learned that true connection goes far beyond words.

I could never have imagined, all those years ago, that our paths would still be so closely connected today. But I’ve never once regretted the journey. If I had to describe what Drew means to me, I’d say he’s like a younger brother. Our bond is strong and grounded in mutual trust. There’s no specific word for what we are to each other — it’s not a duty, it’s a choice. I choose Drew, and he chooses me.

One of the most important parts of our relationship has been being a voice for Drew when it matters most. In situations where his needs, preferences, or wellbeing might otherwise be overlooked, I’ve been there to stand beside him — to speak up, to advocate, to ensure he’s seen and heard.

Even though we don’t see each other every day, Drew knows I’m always here when it counts. Whether it’s a challenge that needs attention, or simply checking in to make sure he’s being treated with care and dignity, I’m there. Sometimes that means being a second set of eyes. Sometimes it means being his safe person. Always, it means showing up.

Our connection feels natural. I understand him. And I will always be in his corner, no matter what.

Being a Citizen Advocate is hard to sum up. It’s not a role , it’s a relationship. It’s a once-in-a-lifetime opportunity to walk alongside someone, to be part of their story, and to let them become part of yours. 

It’s not about changing the world all at once  it’s about changing one life, and letting it change yours in return.

-Allan